Welcome to “Mars and Venus on a date” – Your exclusive guide to dating using the Mars Venus Coaching technique. In this series, you will learn the 5 stages of dating - Attraction, Uncertainty, Exclusivity, Intimacy and Engagement. Find out what men and women are really thinking. Invest in a little knowledge now - before you start dating.
Stage One: Attraction
According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, the definition of attraction is: A feeling that makes someone romantically or sexually interested in another person.
The most important part of the Attraction Stage is that it’s supposed to be fun. Remember it’s the jumping off point; certainly not the destination. It’s about romance and joy - not intimacy or commitment. This is the stage in which men and women get to “try on” potential mates by flirting and dating. They have this opportunity to cultivate interests in a variety of partners. We'll show you how to become skillful in presenting ourselves in ways that are both appealing and supportive to the other person. In order to sustain attraction, we must express our best and most positive self. Here's how.
What SHE wants ...
It is simple, if you want to be more attractive to a woman, then you need to make her feel special. It’s amazing how powerful this action can be. Do small things for her like give her your full attention, open a door for her or give her a thoughtful, truthful compliment. Ask her good questions. And take a risk. Radiate confidence by asking her out. Get to know the woman without any expectations; and you will start to win her over.
The single biggest reason we fail at dating is that we do not understand the opposite sex. Small insights into the differences between men and women can make a world of difference at this stage.
By Kimberly Coon
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