"When a man can listen to a woman's feelings without getting angry and frustrated, he gives her a wonderful gift. In return, she is better able to give a the love ... he needs.” -- John Gray, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
Gender Intelligence
While the world is evolving at breakneck speed - particularly in the area of technology, one thing that has not changed is the way men and women think. Technology has made it easier to reach out to someone and begin a dialogue. To seal the deal, it takes the correct communication skills and tools in your personal life.
What are we talking about? We are talking about how men and women are wired differently - meaning they each have different “hot buttons” as triggers. And having the latest technological devices isn't going to help you make the point, win an argument or persuade your partner to marry you. Learning gender intelligence from Mars Venus Life Coaching will.
Communication
Mars Venus Life Coaches is the first and only program, where life coaches are taught to coach one way for men and another for women. When the two different gender styles of communication are both given credit for their strengths and weaknesses, then the playing field is leveled. Our unique ways of relating to one another are understood, respected, and embraced. Changing the way we talk to one another, in essence, is the fundamental first step.
For example:
He believes communication should have a clear purpose. Behind every conversation is a problem that needs solving or a point that needs to be made. Communication is used to get to the root of the dilemma as efficiently as possible.
She uses communication to discover how she is feeling and what it is she wants to say. She sees conversation as an act of sharing and an opportunity to increase intimacy with her partner. Through sharing, she releases negative feelings and solidifies her bond with the man she loves.
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